Wednesday, October 1, 2008

26 Fascinating Love Facts


I was slow at work and logged onto msn.com, sometimes the strangest things catch my eyes. This article did just that! Some of them are interesting, some are not so relevant. I did get a giggle out this though... Playing through my head some of the scenarios to see if I matched or experienced any of them! I'm not the love Guru- that is a fact! I do however find it fascinating to learn and read about relationships! They are definitely hard work but worth it in the head!

(Article and facts taken from msn.com)
Love is mysterious, fascinating, and when you find it with the right person, there's nothing better. Here are 25 surprising love facts to puzzle over and embrace. Love is a many-splendored thing … and a very surprising thing, too. As if you needed proof of that, here are 25 funny little facts about love. Study them, scratch your head over them, and share them with someone you fancy.

1. Men who kiss their wives in the morning live five years longer than those who don't.

2. People are more likely to tilt their heads to the right when kissing instead of the left (65 percent of people go to the right!)
3. When it comes to doing the deed early in the relationship, 78 percent of women would decline an intimate rendezvous if they had not shaved their legs or underarms.
4. Feminist women are more likely than other females to be in a romantic relationship.
5. Two-thirds of people report that they fall in love with someone they've known for some time vs. someone that they just met.
6. There's a reason why office romances occur: The single biggest predictor of love is proximity.
7. Falling in love can induce a calming effect on the body and mind and raises levels of nerve growth factor for about a year, which helps to restore the nervous system and improves the lover's memory.
8. Love can also exert the same stress on your body as deep fear. You see the same physiological responses — pupil dilation, sweaty palms, and increased heart rate.
9. Brain scans show that people who view photos of a beloved experience an activation of the caudate — the part of the brain involving cravings.
10. The women of the Tiwi tribe in the South Pacific are married at birth.
11. The "Love Detector" service from Korean cell phone operator KTF uses technology that is supposed to analyze voice patterns to see if a lover is speaking honestly and with affection. Users later receive an analysis of the conversation delivered through text message that breaks down the amount of affection, surprise, concentration and honesty of the other speaker.
12. Eleven percent of women have gone online and done research on a person they were dating or were about to meet, versus seven percent of men.
13. Couples' personalities converge over time to make partners more and more similar.
14. The oldest known love song was written 4,000 years ago and comes from an area between the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.
15. The tradition of the diamond engagement ring comes from Archduke Maximillian of Austria who, in the 15th century, gave a diamond ring to his fiancée, Mary of Burgundy.
16. Forty-three percent of women prefer their partners never sign "love" to a card unless they are ready for commitment.
17. People who are newly in love produce decreased levels of the hormone serotonin — as low as levels seen in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Perhaps that's why it's so easy to feel obsessed when you're smitten.
18. Philadelphia International Airport finished as the No. 1 best airport for making a love connection, according to an online survey.
19. According to mathematical theory, we should date a dozen people before choosing a long-term partner; that provides the best chance that you'll make a love match.
20. A man's beard grows fastest when he anticipates sex.
21. Every Valentine's Day, Verona, the Italian city where Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet took place, receives around 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet. 22. When we get dumped, for a period of time we love the person who rejected us even more, says Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutgers University and author of Why We Love. The brain regions that lit up when we were in a happy union continue to be active.
23. People telling the story of how they fell in love overwhelmingly believe the process is out of their control.
24. Familiarity breeds comfort and closeness … and romance.
25. One in five long-term love relationships began with one or both partners being involved with others.
26. OK, this one may not surprise you, but we had to share it: Having a romantic relationship makes both genders happier. The stronger the commitment, the greater the happiness!

Friday, September 26, 2008

What I have Learned (Part One)

The past few months have been trial after trial after trial. (both good and bad)

I have learned that my dad is even more amazing that what I already knew. I have learned that I love celery late at night after working out. I have learned that having an addict around is exhausting. I have learned that I am able to forgive. I have learned that relationships are hard work. I have learned that I have amazing friends. I have learned that grudges are not worth it. I have learned I miss crocheting with Grandma Nunley. I have learned that if moms journal goes missing to check Sisters house. I have learned that I need to take time for myself. I have learned that there are people willing to give me help. I have learned I miss certain people in my life. I have learned that my love for you was more than you ever knew. I have learned that obstacles allow for love to be on the backburner.
I have learned how to use Photoshop better. I have learned that helping someone is allowing them to figure it out on their own. I have learned that Aunt Mary's salsa recipe has gone missing. I have learned that hurtful words said can not be taken back. I have learned I miss fishing with my dear friend :( I have learned that I need to do my part if I ask God to do his. I have learned I need to get my testimony strong again. I have learned candy makes me feel sluggish. I have learned that fostering a puppy makes Kona and I happy. I have learned that I have to feed my heart in order for it to grow and get stronger.
I have learned helping others makes me feel complete. I have learned that teenagers love frozen pizzas. I have learned I love to be part of a book club. I have learned that gelato is amazing! I have learned I still love sports after all these years. I have learned I miss my nieces and nephews more and more every day. I have learned that I absolutely love rain. I have learned it is hard to let someone that you love go. I have learned that hiking is my therapy to clear my mind. I have learned that it is hard to say sorry at times. I have learned I love vegetarian meals better. I have learned that I love the movies from the 80's like: Harry and the Hendersons, Goonies, 9 to 5, Annie, Top Gun. I have learned I am not perfect. I have learned not to take life for granted. I have learned that crying is okay at times. I have learned I still have a lot of learning to do!

But I think the number one thing that I have learned is: I have learned that TOUGH LOVE means just that! (It's beyond tough!) I have put it in full force the past week!!! I have learned that individuals need to Learn on their own. I have learned that they will appreciate me more if I am a teacher not a babysitter!

I still have so much to learn in life!

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

"PUMP YOU UP"

"I'm Hans and I'm Franz.. and we're here to (clap)
PUMP YOU UP"
I just wanted to send my GOOD LUCK out to Chad Brann!!
He'll be competing in his first ever body building competition!
He's worked hard for this.... GOOD LUCK Chad! I can't wait for Saturday!
I know the rules- no pictures to be posted after!!!
Here are the details if anyone is interested:
It's this Saturday the 27th at Northridge High School.

There's a pre-judging show at 10 AM, and adults tickets are $10 each, kids 6-12 are $5 and kids 5 and under are free.

The final judging is that night at 7 PM. Adult tickets are $15 each, kids 6-12 are $5, and kids 5 and under are free.

One Word.. About Me

Answer the following with only twoe word.

Your hair?........................................clean
Your mother?................................... beautiful
Your father?....................................amazing
Your favorite thing?.............................baseball
Your dream last night........................scary
Your favorite drink...............................water
The room you're in..........................office
Your children?..................................kona
Your fear?.......................................drugs
Where do you want to be in 6 years?.............alaska
Where were you last night?.........................softball
What you're not?....................................rested
Muffins?.........................................poppyseed
One of your wish list items?.........................travel
Where'd you grow up?................................murray
What'd you read last?........................email
What are you wearing?.........................jacket
Your pet?.................................kona
Your computer?...............................laptop
Your life?.....................................confusing
Your mood?................................sad
Missing someone?............................YES
Your car?.........................................lawnmower
Something you're not wearing?..................tank
Favorite store?..............................rei
Your summer?...................................memories
Like someone?.....................................yes
Your favorite color?................................green
Last time you laughed................................lunch
Last time you cried?.....................................today

Friday, September 19, 2008

** Introducing **

FIZZY !!!

She is the newest addition to the Suz and Kona family!

I have always wanted to help those animals that are stuck in the Humane Society, so I emailed the volunteer director and asked her if I could foster as well as volunteer a few hours.

We had a few emails going back and forth, general volunteer information, etc. However on Wednesday I got a phone call. She said we have a puppy that needs a Foster home and lots of love- are you interested? Without any hesitation I said YES!
Thursday rolled around and after work I went to the Humane Society and saw her! OH MY GOSH SO PRECIOUS!
She had just come out of surgery (getting her female goods taken care of) and she was just laying there. I went to her and talked with her... she just layed there but her tail was wagging.. I thought OH crap.. I think I love this lil' girl! haha
I talked to the lady - to find out info about her.

She is blind in the left eye. (a large dog attacked her when she was just a newborn)

Her name Frizzy.. I hate but we're slowly converting her to "Oakley Sage"!!

She apparently is scared of big dogs but has not had a problem with Kona.
This lil' girl is so precious and loves to cuddle. I found her and Kona laying on Kona's bed cuddling this morning when I was getting ready for work.
I will say that her seeing only one eye - yes is sad but has some humor!
Last night we were playing outside, Anita came over to see her.

Anita and I were sitting on the steps just talking.. and Neeters starts laughing hysterically. I said what? She pointed at lil' Oakley... poor lil' thing.. she was chasing a fly and can only see out of her right eye... so she kept going in circles and circles and circles- trying to see and catch the fly. She got so dizzy she had to lay down!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA Bless her heart!
I have a big Heart when it comes to animals! So helpless!

If anyone is interested in volunteering with me a few hours a month - let me know!

Here's a few pictures of this precious girl.
Look at her - So precious!

Frizzy (aka Oakely) Laying on the bed with her lil' piggy I got for her!

Foster Sisters!

* FOUND *

Yes it's true! The word has gotten out! We have found a new hair stylist!
What can I say we are hot babes!!! BAHAHAHAHA
(yes I referred to us as babes!)
Sad that I actually posted these ugly pictures! I had to though! This night was what's the word... oh yes.. interesting!
For those of you that were there (Neeters!) You will understand my "interesting"!
I want to thank Neeters (aka Anita) for always being there for me! You make me laugh when I need it and always have a ear for me to vent to!
You are a dear and true friend that has the biggest heart!!








Wednesday, September 17, 2008

*As a young child / young lady*

I had to post these pictures of Grandma Nunley!