Friday, September 26, 2008

What I have Learned (Part One)

The past few months have been trial after trial after trial. (both good and bad)

I have learned that my dad is even more amazing that what I already knew. I have learned that I love celery late at night after working out. I have learned that having an addict around is exhausting. I have learned that I am able to forgive. I have learned that relationships are hard work. I have learned that I have amazing friends. I have learned that grudges are not worth it. I have learned I miss crocheting with Grandma Nunley. I have learned that if moms journal goes missing to check Sisters house. I have learned that I need to take time for myself. I have learned that there are people willing to give me help. I have learned I miss certain people in my life. I have learned that my love for you was more than you ever knew. I have learned that obstacles allow for love to be on the backburner.
I have learned how to use Photoshop better. I have learned that helping someone is allowing them to figure it out on their own. I have learned that Aunt Mary's salsa recipe has gone missing. I have learned that hurtful words said can not be taken back. I have learned I miss fishing with my dear friend :( I have learned that I need to do my part if I ask God to do his. I have learned I need to get my testimony strong again. I have learned candy makes me feel sluggish. I have learned that fostering a puppy makes Kona and I happy. I have learned that I have to feed my heart in order for it to grow and get stronger.
I have learned helping others makes me feel complete. I have learned that teenagers love frozen pizzas. I have learned I love to be part of a book club. I have learned that gelato is amazing! I have learned I still love sports after all these years. I have learned I miss my nieces and nephews more and more every day. I have learned that I absolutely love rain. I have learned it is hard to let someone that you love go. I have learned that hiking is my therapy to clear my mind. I have learned that it is hard to say sorry at times. I have learned I love vegetarian meals better. I have learned that I love the movies from the 80's like: Harry and the Hendersons, Goonies, 9 to 5, Annie, Top Gun. I have learned I am not perfect. I have learned not to take life for granted. I have learned that crying is okay at times. I have learned I still have a lot of learning to do!

But I think the number one thing that I have learned is: I have learned that TOUGH LOVE means just that! (It's beyond tough!) I have put it in full force the past week!!! I have learned that individuals need to Learn on their own. I have learned that they will appreciate me more if I am a teacher not a babysitter!

I still have so much to learn in life!

3 comments:

Deezer and Ro said...

See sister...like your elementary school teachers used to say - if you apply yourself, you too can learn and be smrt!!!

duff said...

wow those are amazing thoughts!

Alisha said...

It's amazing how much learning can be packed into so little time! That's like eating concentrated orange juice from the can instead of diluting it. Sometimes it's easier that way, though. Not as much suffering over the long haul.